Just only a few days ago, God had a very cool situation happen with communication. This must be an area I need to work on or something, because it happened again! I think this will always be a life-long thing to learn. ???
This time I learned how lack of communication can catch up to you and bit you in the butt! (to put it plain and simple)
It's probably hard to explain this...
Basically I had just assumed something with Ben and thought...nah I don't have to tell him that is what I am going to do with something, because, eh...I have a right to do it this time. Well...that sure stung me later.
All I know is, from now on, I will communicate about things, because he does with me on this same thing, so why shouldn't I? I feel horrible for how it played out today, but at the same time, I don't regret it because you always learn something from your mistakes.
Lord Jesus, I thank you for revealing to me once again today that this communication thing is very important in a relationship! Thank you for letting me "get caught" and for having Ben and I be able to talk about it, because once again, it probably wouldn't have been a conversation I would have been willing to have, if not forced to. I know you are showing me more and more things with this and I pray you'll continue to reveal to me my flaws in this area and that you "force" us to deal with it right away. Lord Jesus I pray that I will become a better wife through this and that my husband and I will be able to continue to help each other out through this as we figure out the difference from being on our own to now marriage. Even though we've been married over a year, I pray we can continue to learn these things and not let it become an issue. Guide us Lord in the way that honors you!
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